
One of the hardest sentences in the English language is only three words long: “I was wrong.” Those words choke in our throats because they confront our pride, our excuses, and the carefully constructed image we want others to believe. Yet those same three words are at the heart of genuine confession—and without confession, there can be no cleansing.
John writes, “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves…”, but it goes deeper than self-deception. When we deny our sin, we treat the sacrifice of Christ as unnecessary. Christ died for sins He did not commit—for guilt that belonged exclusively to us. He died for the lies we told, the deceit we practiced, and the sinful desires we willingly indulged. If we insist “I have no sin,” we stand as if the blood He shed was for nothing.
But when we finally say, “I was wrong,” we are not informing God of something He didn’t know—we are agreeing with what Christ already died for. Confession is simply aligning our words with the truth that nailed Him to the cross.
And the promise that follows is astounding: “He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” That cleansing is not symbolic, emotional, or imaginary. It flows from the blood of Jesus Christ, the only cleansing fountain God has provided for human guilt. We are not washed by effort, resolve, or moral improvement—the cleansing comes from Christ alone.
The world avoids accountability. It renames sin and replaces confession with excuses. But for the Christian, freedom begins the moment we are willing to utter those three difficult words—not to earn forgiveness, but to receive the cleansing Christ has already paid for with His blood.

Yes, letting down our walls of pride, admitting our sin, and asking for forgiveness is one of the most difficult things to do. But the reward, forgiveness and cleansing, is so worth it!
Have a blessed day, Eric!
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It sure is! It’s so freeing to just come clean and admit my wrongs. To be bound in pride is to walk in heavy shackles while pretending the weight of them isn’t burdensome.
Have a great day Heather!
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You lay it all out clearly here Eric; our sin and pride lock us out of the blessing of our Lord and Saviour’s redeeming work for us. May we gain the blessed release of unlocking our heart and lips – “I am sorry!” Thank you for sharing this beautiful reminder brother, God bless you and your family today 🙏
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Amen brother! Thanks for sharing that perspective, your words are encouraging and always welcome, brother! Have a great day in the freedom of the Lord!🙏👍🏻
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